Monday, September 14, 2020
ar Sandy Coyle-Abel, The world has lost another angel! We are still trying to come to grips that you are even gone. James Crain loved you beyond words, but you already knew that even he he wasnt good about telling you so. I know this because while you were there at the hospital all the different times, he was right there beside you to support and take care of you during everything you were going thru. But as we all know cancer is a very cruel thing, even tho you beat it once, this time it got the best of you. You were such a wonderful human being and I don't think there is ANYTHING you would not do to help your family, friends and the love of your life, my brother! They say in life we all have a soulmate somewhere amd for you to have loved him, truly LOVED him from the age of 16, you must have known somehow you were going to get your man. I want to say thank you Sandy for, caring about, being there for and loving my brother. Thank you for helping him to get past the loss of our mother. Thank you for being his rock when he needed one and for most of all being the friend he needed as well. I do not know exactly how he is going to cope with you being gone, you were everything to him and right now he is so lost. You were there to pick him up when he would fall, you were there to listen to him when he needed to talk but mostly you were there and loved him through the good and the bad! You were such an amazing woman and I am thankful i got to be your friend. I know James is taking this really hard, so if you could somehow please find a way to let him know that this may not have been his choice or your choice, but it was the right choice. Your body had been thru so much and it had just had enough. If he would have had his way, you would still be here, even if in a nursing home on a ventilator, because just one more day with you wasnt ever going to be enough. He would have continue to come see you each and every day, because as much as you loved him, he loved you back the same way. The only thing that makes losing you seem ok, is the fact that we know you are no longer suffering or in any pain. Just know that letting you go was the HARDEST thing James has EVER HAD TO DO! I know that my mom was probably right there waiting when you arrived, kissing your cheek and telling you how grateful she was for you to be here to take care of James. Sandy you had one of the biggest hearts that was so giving and caring and this world wont be the same without you. Please kiss my mom and dad, Tim and Pete, tell them we all love and miss them and we will see them again someday. Help them to watch over us and guide us all in these very trying times and in a messed up world. Until the day we will again meet, Fly high with the angels Sandy and please keep watching over James as he is going to need you now more than he ever needed you. Rest in sweet peace my friend! Anytime I hear Uncle Kracker "Drift Away" i will always think of you. until then my friend....
